Melissa
My child had the meltdown of all meltdowns today. It happened in the checkout of a store because she wanted a ball that she saw. She was screaming at the top of her lungs, which continued during the drive home and at home also. It lasted at least a half hour.
This is how I handled it: I pretty much ignored her. I told her to stop but after that I ignored her. When she started to calm down I then talked to her but she started right up again. So I ignored her again. When she finally calmed down for real I knelt down and talked to her and then hugged her. The tantrum was completely over and that was hours ago. Did I do the right thing?
I appreciate any advice . Thanks!!!!
my daughter is 22 months old
Answer
I think you did the right thing. This has happened to me and my 20 month old daughter when she wanted another Wiggles toy. I diverted her attention to something else and she forgot all about it.
Remember that, good behaviour management in the early years can prevent that 'time bomb' from exploding when your infant reaches the teen years. A fully fledged tantrum is your toddler's way of telling you things are NOT going their way, or they simply want your attention.
Often parents forget that the most effective secret weapon - their toddler's attention span, is still very short. Your toddler will go from tears to laughter FAST, if their interest is diverted.
Be attentive when your child needs your attention, but ignore times when they are screaming - simply to get their way. Treat your child the same whether you are home or not, or your child will quickly learn where they can misbehave and get away with it.
Read books on child behaviour and choose a method which works for not only your child, but also, you the parent, then stick to it.
Praise when you can - it works wonders.
I think you did the right thing. This has happened to me and my 20 month old daughter when she wanted another Wiggles toy. I diverted her attention to something else and she forgot all about it.
Remember that, good behaviour management in the early years can prevent that 'time bomb' from exploding when your infant reaches the teen years. A fully fledged tantrum is your toddler's way of telling you things are NOT going their way, or they simply want your attention.
Often parents forget that the most effective secret weapon - their toddler's attention span, is still very short. Your toddler will go from tears to laughter FAST, if their interest is diverted.
Be attentive when your child needs your attention, but ignore times when they are screaming - simply to get their way. Treat your child the same whether you are home or not, or your child will quickly learn where they can misbehave and get away with it.
Read books on child behaviour and choose a method which works for not only your child, but also, you the parent, then stick to it.
Praise when you can - it works wonders.
toddler learning?
Sue G
My daughter is a 2 and a half. What are some good learning activities i can do with her?
Answer
Hopefully these activities will give you an idea about what your child meant like to do..
. Dump and Fill
Toddlers like to dump and fill just about anything. Be sure to supply the children with plenty of opportunities to dump and fill. Coffee cans and boxes make great items to be filled. You can have the children fill with toys, tops from baby food jars, and other toddler safe items.
2. Cause and effect
Toddlers will love to play games where they can see the cause and effect. A simple lightswitch can be a source of entertainment, (as well as the not so desirable toilet flushing LOL), toys that resond by touch, like music books, and pop up toys, jack in the boxes and activity centers are great toys for this age.
Peanut Butter Play Dough
1 cup peanut butter
1 cup corn syrup
1 1/4 cup nonfat dry milk
1 1/4 cup confectioner's sugar
Mix then knead the ingredients. Let your child mold and play with the dough... and when they are done.. They can eat it.
Bubbles
Toddlers are amazed by bubbles. Bubbles can catch a toddlers attention for at least 15 minutes.
Sand and Water Play
A dishtub filled with sand or water can provide entertainment as well as a great learning experience. Ideas to add to water play: a drop of food coloring, turkey basters, funnels, cups, dish soap, boats, plastic toys, brushes and sponges, ice, cold or warm water, baby dolls or play dishes to wash, toddler safe balls, items that will sink or float.
Chocolate Pudding Finger Paint
Mix instant chocolate pudding according to the directions and paint on wax paper. Great for children who like to eat their art:)
hope that will help...
Hopefully these activities will give you an idea about what your child meant like to do..
. Dump and Fill
Toddlers like to dump and fill just about anything. Be sure to supply the children with plenty of opportunities to dump and fill. Coffee cans and boxes make great items to be filled. You can have the children fill with toys, tops from baby food jars, and other toddler safe items.
2. Cause and effect
Toddlers will love to play games where they can see the cause and effect. A simple lightswitch can be a source of entertainment, (as well as the not so desirable toilet flushing LOL), toys that resond by touch, like music books, and pop up toys, jack in the boxes and activity centers are great toys for this age.
Peanut Butter Play Dough
1 cup peanut butter
1 cup corn syrup
1 1/4 cup nonfat dry milk
1 1/4 cup confectioner's sugar
Mix then knead the ingredients. Let your child mold and play with the dough... and when they are done.. They can eat it.
Bubbles
Toddlers are amazed by bubbles. Bubbles can catch a toddlers attention for at least 15 minutes.
Sand and Water Play
A dishtub filled with sand or water can provide entertainment as well as a great learning experience. Ideas to add to water play: a drop of food coloring, turkey basters, funnels, cups, dish soap, boats, plastic toys, brushes and sponges, ice, cold or warm water, baby dolls or play dishes to wash, toddler safe balls, items that will sink or float.
Chocolate Pudding Finger Paint
Mix instant chocolate pudding according to the directions and paint on wax paper. Great for children who like to eat their art:)
hope that will help...
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