Friday, April 18, 2014

Do you think parents should beat there kids?




lexi22


Hey I need to write about parents beating there kids. I need 7 reason why or why not you think parents should beat there kids.
Yes i mean BEAT and not SPANK.
Please no cussing or words like crap and hell. my teacher says it not "appropriate" for class (me:rolls eyes)



Answer
No - parents should not literally beat their kids. Spank, yes. Beat, no.

And your teacher is correct. Using cuss words or words like "crap" and "hell" are not appropriate for public reading (maybe it is in the adult world - but even then, to a point). The reason for this is because it makes the author (you) look immature and gives the impression that you are not very well educated.

1 - Beating a child - whether or not you have good reason to - shows the child that it's okay to beat up other people - which is really NOT okay.
2 - The psychological ramifications can last well into their adult years.
3 - The child will not understand why he or she is being beaten because the parent doing the beating is angry and will probably not explain anything.
4 - The child will feel as though he or she is not loved - which could cause other behavioral problems later.

Can't think of any other reasons - sorry - I'm a few short.

what do you think of parents beating their kids?




tarkan


is it addiction? or psychological illness? or its the reflective behavior of their childhood life? what do you think is the best treatment for this behaviour?


Answer
Personally, I don't think that beating their kids is the right way to teach them a lesson. It isn't addiction or psycological illness, though. It may be a reflective behaviour of their childhood life. Their parents may have beaten them while they were a child. And as they grew up they probably believe that is a good way to disipline their kids. Most parents in America ground their children. And some parents beat their children. Beating their children is very wrong but it actually works to disipline your children. Why do some kids not repeat the bad stuff they have done? Because they don't want to be grounded again the same as they don't want to be beaten again. Which is more effective? Probably the beating. Sometimes parents also get really fustrated with their children how they are disobeying them; So they beat them. But the biggest reasons why it is bad to beat your children is because:
1. It hurts them.
2.Eventually they will be scared of their own parents.
3. They aren't learning from their mistakes. They just don't repeat the mistakes because they just don't want to get beaten.
The only treatment for this behaviour is to make the parents realize that, that isn't the right way to disipline your children.




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